Number One Son
In the story Number One Son By Monfoon Leong it talks about how a son deals with Ming's father death. This kid was next
to be head in charge, So he had a lot of pressure on him.
"The old man glanced quickly at all the family, but addressed
himself only to Ming in his mother's dialect. "Ming," he said
very solemnly, "Your father leave no money. We must get money
from friends for funeral. You come with me."
"I must go?" Ming started to turn toward his mother as he
said it.
"You are head of family," Grandfather Choak said."
Ming's father works in a restaurant as a dishwasher to support his 6 kids and wife, Well really 5 kids because Ming
was always out working as a houseboy. Ming felt resentment on his fathers death because he had barely been aware of his existence and now just left him with a family to
support.
"His
father could never buy him anything. He should be grieving, but
all he could feel was a harsh resentment against the man who had
been hardly aware of his existence and who had just left him with
a family to support."
Ming's mother didn't tell Ming about his fathers death as soon as it happened because she did not want to call and wake up his boss and was afraid he would lose his
job. Grandfather Choak and Ming go see neighbors and business people to see if they can get some support and money due to Ming's fathers death. The opinions of these people
showed how they viewed Ming's father and if they respected or cared for him. In the story there in good points and bad points of being the number one son. The good points
are that you get to be the next head of the family, you are the back bone of the family the one every looks up upon. The bad points are that you are the back bone of the
family so anything you do will reflect upon your family also you have a lot of stress and problems in your life since your in charge. He really takes charge and takes his
position as the number one son and as head in charge, He makes his sacrifices and continues to live his life as his father wanted him to.
"Ming couldn't speak. They started walking homeward.
"You are number one son, head of family now, but after
funeral, you must go back to Mrs. Warner and to school," his
mother said.
"But the family."
"Many things a woman can do at home to earn money."
"No," Ming said firmly. "I will work and go to night
school."
His mother started to say something further, but Ming
stopped her with, "Remember, I am number one son, head of
family."
He took her arm to help her across the street."
Many kids appreciate their parents in many different ways. Every kids appreciates their parents but some don't show it in a way of appreciation. Kids often have problems
with their parents but at the end of the day their parents are their parents and they did give life to them. Some may have personal problems that may make them not like
their parents but that is their choice, But kids who are with their parents love their parents it may not be a lot but they show their parents love in any way they can
and their parents do the same.
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